Help someone smile
I am still working on changing my default expression to a smile. After a lifetime of looking overly serious, it’s a journey.
I’ve noticed I smile naturally when I help someone else smile. It’s even better when I make someone laugh. I laugh with them and get an amazing feeling that cures all my emotional ills. Maybe laughter is the best medicine.
What can you do today to help someone smile or laugh?
PS – If you missed the start of project smile, check out the previous posts:
Perception is reality
RBF be gone!
Hopefully, my questions cause you to reflect on your own thinking, relationships or choices. Maybe I even inspire you to make positive changes.
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