Strengths and weaknesses
There are two simple ways to get better. Double-down on your strengths or improve the things that limit you.
Often we choose to work on our strengths and it feels good to do something well. Despite the pleasure of getting better at what you do best, your strengths only take you so far.
Sometimes it’s worthwhile to focus on your weaknesses. Even though it might not be as rewarding initially, eliminating the weak link may allow you to take your strengths even further.
One of the habits I’ve developed is hitting a weakness, a strength and then the weakness again. This way I attack the weakness while maintaining the strength. Over time, I’ve become more balanced and I think this will help me progress further in the long run.
How do you tackle your weaknesses?
Hopefully, my questions cause you to reflect on your own thinking, relationships or choices. Maybe I even inspire you to make positive changes.
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